Here’s a story of two women. One has been using sanitary pads at work almost every day for the past year, because of urinary incontinence. And then there is another woman who has been living with the loss of bladder control for 15 years, staying confined to her home. Both women believe that loss of bladder control is quite common, especially as one grows older, and one must just ‘live with it’.
Let us get one thing clear: urinary incontinence (uncontrolled urinary leakage) may be a prevalent disorder, but that does not mean that it is ever normal, even when it results from ageing. Unfortunately, embarrassment, social stigma, and lack of awareness hinder many from receiving necessary assistance.
The majority adapt their lifestyle to the problem by avoiding trips, or limiting social meetings, or even by altering the way they dress. I am constantly surprised at meeting patients who have been putting off treatment for several months or even several years. The important thing about incontinence that many do not know is that most types can be cured.
Causes of urinary incontinence
Urinary incontinence can affect both males and females regardless of their age group. Even children can have this problem because of stress or trauma or changes in lifestyle.
There are various causes that lead to urine leaking from the bladder, and there are different types of incontinence. Stress incontinence is the involuntary leakage of urine due to stress or trauma; urge incontinence, is the sudden urge to urinate causing a leakage, and mixed incontinence is a confluence of stress and urge incontinence.
A primary cause in women is the weakness of pelvic floor muscles, which support the bladder and urethra. Pregnancy, childbirth, menopause and age-related changes contribute to the weakening of these muscles, leading to leakage during coughing, sneezing, exercising, or lifting heavy objects. A majority of women presume that this is one of the aftereffects of childbirth or menopause, which is a mistaken belief.
Among men, the problem of enlarged prostates is very common and often results in urinary incontinence issues. As the prostate enlarges, it can disrupt the normal process of urinary flow and bladder emptying.
Another common condition is an overactive bladder, very prevalent among both men and women. This causes sudden, difficult-to-control urges to urinate leading to involuntary bladder muscle contractions.
Moreover, certain neurological disorders such as Parkinson’s disease, strokes, multiple sclerosis, spinal cord injuries, and diabetic neuropathy may affect the ability of the brain to communicate with the bladder, thus causing bladder dysfunction. Additional factors that cause bladder problems include urinary tract infections, obesity, chronic constipation, excessive caffeine intake, pelvic organ prolapse, specific medications, a history of surgery involving the pelvic organs, and congenital diseases.
Treating incontinence
The key to successful treatment lies in identifying the underlying causes. A thorough evaluation typically includes a detailed medical history, physical examination, urine tests, an ultrasound, and when required, specialized assessments such as urodynamic studies that help evaluate bladder function in greater detail.
Treatment is tailored to individuals and often begins with simple, conservative measures. Lifestyle changes such as weight control, decreasing caffeine intake, managing constipation and adjusting fluid intake can improve symptoms considerably. For patients suffering from an overactive bladder and stress incontinence, pelvic floor muscle exercises (Kegel exercises) and bladder training are particularly effective.
Sometimes when the lifestyle measures are not adequate, medicines can be used to reduce urgency, improve bladder storage capacity, and decrease urinary incontinence. Men with prostate enlargement benefit from medications that improve urinary flow and decrease bladder strain.
In addition to this, there is a whole range of newer, minimally-invasive options for treatment that did not exist even ten years ago. These options include Bladder Botox treatment, sacral nerve modulation, and biofeedback therapy for pelvic floor rehabilitation.
In select cases, surgery may prove to be the most effective, long-term solution. Women suffering from stress urinary incontinence may benefit from mid-urethral sling procedures, whereas an artificial urinary sphincter would be an option in cases where men are experiencing incontinence due to the prostate. Patients with prostate enlargement may also gain from minimally-invasive surgical procedures such as HoLEP (Holmium Laser Enucleation of the Prostate), laser prostate surgery, or TURP (Transurethral Resection of the Prostate), which can restore normal bladder emptying. Modern surgical techniques make these procedures reliable and accurate, and they are associated with quick recoveries.
The takeaway
The message is simple: bladder leakage should never be accepted as an inevitable part of ageing. It can affect confidence, sleep, relationships, productivity, and overall well-being. If you or a loved one experiences urinary leakage, urgency, or difficulty controlling the bladder, the sooner the underlying cause is identified, the sooner comfort, confidence, and independence can be restored.
(Dr. N. Ragavan is a senior urological surgeon and uro-oncologist at Apollo Hospitals, Chennai. drnarasimhan_ragavan@apollohospitals.com)
Published – June 22, 2026 12:25 pm IST